How to Find the G-spot (part 2)
The G-spot, gynecologist’s Ernst Grafenberg’s contribution to the pinnacle of female orgasm. Okay, he didn’t discover it, but he was the first to talk about it in scholarly circles. So what’s the g-spot location and how do you go about finding the g-spot? We’ll guide you through this territory so that through g-spot stimulation, you can bring your partner to new heights of sensual delight.
What is the G-spot? Essentially, it’s a cluster of nerve tissue, roughly shaped like a lima bean, that’s on the vaginal wall about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of the cervix. It’s a bit of a reach, and it’s exact location varies among women. Knowing that, you might feel ready to begin your exploration. First, though, make sure that your partner is comfortable with this sex play, both physically and emotionally. If she’s hesitant or reluctant to go into this area, don’t push it. G-spot stimulation is supposed to be pleasurable for both of you, so be sure to take her feelings into account. Neither of you should feel any pressure while you’re engaging in G-spot location; finding the G-spot isn’t something that’s always successful on the first attempts, so a relaxed vibe where any pleasurable result is a good one is what you want for you explorations into finding the G-spot.
When you begin your first foray into G-spot location, if your partner is lying on her back with her feet flat and knees bent, the physical component will be more comfortable. You want to make sure that she’s well lubricated, so a good round of oral sex or fingering is a fine way to begin. When she’s aroused, locating her G-spot will be an easier task, as the tissue will become engorged with blood and more noticeable when you’re probing with your finger.
Once she’s moist and aroused, it’s time for penetration. The G-spot is located along a curve, which some men are able to reach and stimulate with their penis via typical penetration. That’s not always the case; if so, manual G-spot stimulation will work just as well. Insert your finger into her vagina and feel along the interior wall close to the navel. You’ll want to press and massage her vaginal wall firmly, as G-spot stimulation doesn’t occur with light rubbing; the G-spot responds to firm pressure, so you’ll want to press hard enough for g-spot stimulation to occur without pressing so hard as to cause discomfort.
You’ll know that you’ve located the G-spot from the tissue’s response; the rush of blood to the G-spot when stimulated will cause the tissue to rise, and your partner will likely experience a sensation akin to having to urinate. Don’t worry; that’s not going to happen. That comes about due to the G-spot’s proximity to the bladder, but when a woman has a G-spot orgasm, it becomes physically impossible for her to urinate, even when female ejaculation’s involved. The fluid that accompanies female ejaculation is produced by the Skene’s glands, not the bladder, so there’s no need for anxiety over any release of urine.
Remember, this level of intimacy is going to involve a lot of trust and a high comfort level. When you get to the point where you’re ready to indulge in G-spot location and the accompanying G-spot stimulation, making the experience playful and loving will enhance the pleasure for both of you, whether you locate the G-spot or not. So be excellent to each other and enjoy the journey.
