A Short Guide to G-Spot Massage
Discovering the sensual pleasure of the G-spot can be electric. When aroused to the point of orgasm, the G-spot is prone to trigger multiple orgasms. A woman is far more likely to experience multiple orgasms from a G-spot orgasm than vaginal or clitoral orgasm. There’s also a pyramid effect involved, in which each G-spot orgasm is more intense than the previous one. So achieving this is often regarded as a Holy Grail of female sensuality. So how does one go about achieving this?
First, you’ll need to locate her G-spot. Make sure your nails are trimmed; this is a delicate area and you want to be certain that your partner will be comfortable throughout your sexplay. For positioning, doggy-style is often the most comfortable and allows easiest access to the G-spot. Make sure that you arouse your partner before reaching for the G-spot; the natural lubrication will make the process more comfortable. Oral sex is a fine way to begin. The precise location varies from woman to woman, but it’ll be in an area inside the vaginal wall between the cervix and the pubic bone. When your finger runs over a spongy mass of tissue roughly the size of a lima bean, you’ve struck paydirt.
Once you’ve located your partner’s G-spot, press down on it with firm pressure and use rhythmic strokes for G-spot stimulation. You’ll know if you’ve got the right combination of location and technique both from your partner’s responses and the tactile sensation of the G-spot – when aroused, it becomes engorged with blood and expands in size.
At this point, your partner’s PC muscle might clench – this action prevents the flow of urine and G-spot stimulation often produces a sensation in a woman almost indistinguishable from the need to urinate, due to the G-spot’s proximity to the bladder. It’s important for her to override the natural inclination to tense her PC muscle and relax it instead. It’s impossible to urinate during a G-spot orgasm. Any fluid released during female ejaculation isn’t urine; it’s produced by the Skene’s Glands. So there’s no cause for any anxiety concerning bladder release.
When a G-spot orgasm is achieved, the partner stimulating the G-spot will feel the vagina lighting constricting and releasing around their finger. Continued G-spot stimulation during her orgasm opens the door for multiple G-spot orgasms. After the initial G-spot orgasm, wait about twenty seconds, or until she’s comfortable with continued G-spot stimulation, and continue. Ultimately, the process of G-spot massage may trigger female ejaculation. Again, it’s important for the woman to let go of any muscle contractions she’d generally make to prevent urinating. Though the sensations are similar, there’s no danger of urination during G-spot stimulation and letting go of pee anxiety and the muscle response associated with it is necessary to allow G-spot orgasms to take place.
It may take a few attempts to locate the G-spot and effect G-spot stimulation intense enough to trigger a G-spot orgasm. Don’t worry. There’s no pressure; this is all about pleasure. You may want to try simultaneous clitoral stimulation. The heightened arousal will also trigger the G-spot’s stimulation, and as it rises, it may become easier to locate. At any rate, the most important thing is that G-spot massage is pleasurable for both of you. It’s about the journey, not the destination. So relax, be excellent to each other, and enjoy your sensual odyssey.
